Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Full term, what?!?

Where has the time gone?

Yesterday I was talking to Travis and realized that it is a possibility that I could have the baby before my next appointment, now that is a scary thought. This Saturday I will be 36 weeks which is the point in your pregnancy when people start saying, "it could be any time."

While I am trying to convince myself that he could be here late, because Lillian came early and you don't get that lucky twice, I have a feeling he is going to be very early. Travis said he knows it isn't going to be any time soon because last time I went on a cleaning rampage and that hasn't happened. With Lillian I knew it would be close when I finally went through and deep cleaned our office and that is exactly what happened. I told Travis yesterday this time I know it will be close when I do the same to our bedroom. Well, that happened today. So even though we are nowhere near ready, the crib isn't put together, we haven't bought anything for the baby, the nursery is a mess, it could be any time. Yikes!

Thursday, January 12, 2012

Ain't Nothing Gonna Break My Stride

For the last two years I have been kind of down and out in the household department. I was so sick with Lillian, I would come home from work and either go to bed or lay on the couch until bedtime. Through most of her life she has had such bad sleeping problems, it was all I could do to stay awake during the day. After I got pregnant again? Forget about it. Worst stay at home mom ever.

Part of the problem is, besides her sleep schedule I never put us in a routine. I would just wake up and sit and watch her play. It was always so hard to get work done anyway because she won't play on her own and likes to get into everything that I am doing. I started having some problems with depression and anxiety and I realized the house being in a constant state of disaster wasn't helping. I also realized that even though I hated doing anything, when I got stuff done, I felt better. Added on top of all of this, I was not being very fair to Travis. He had to work all day, then come home and do the dishes, pick up, etc. Our weekends were dedicated to cleaning and getting everything else done.

I decided last week, it has to stop. I need to get us in a routine for both the week and every day. I put together a schedule for the day, and a cleaning schedule for the week and decided I was going to set my alarm in the morning, get up and get to work. Then that night Lillian was awake from 10:30pm-2:30am. Uh, yeah. I didn't get up until she did. Immediately following that I got a cold that knocked me out for a few days. Starting Monday, I decide I AM going to do this, and even though it has just been a few days I am loving it. I already feel better, and I think we are all better off for it.

As far as the actual schedule, I had no idea where to even start. I emailed one of my most organized friends and pretty much use her schedule to the t. Of course I made some adjustments for what works for our family but on any day during the week, at any time during that day we might just be doing the exact same thing.

Thursday, January 5, 2012

15 Month Check Up

it weird to post a check up post when you have never posted a check up post previously?

Guess what? I don't care!

Even though Lillian is 16 months old, we had her 15 month check up today and for some reason this is the first appointment where I was so proud of her accomplishments. I guess the nurse asking about her milestones just make me realize how much she is growing and learning.

She is in the 10% percentile for weight and 35th for height. Our little petite girl is finally getting some inches on her!! Still in the top of her class for head size.

Some of the things they asked about:

5-6 word vocabulary? Yes. She says mama, dada/daddy, blanket, doggy, ball, baby, and I'm pretty sure she said Kyle (after hanging out with her Uncle Kyle). She can also sign eat, sleep, blanket, bath, milk, banana, please, and thank you.

Can she walk/stand on her own? Yes, this girl is all over the place. Her favorite thing to run to is her daddy. Every day when he walks through the door she runs to him with her chin up high and her hands in the air.


Is she climbing? Yes. She started climbing on some indoor play area equipment one day a couple of months ago and wants to climb on everything since

Can she point out 2-3 body parts? Yes, I didn't even know this was a milestone. I'm so glad we had been working on it. She can point out her mouth/tongue, eyes, nose, ears, hair, belly and toes.


How many fruits and veggies a day? 3-4. This is one that I was particularly glad about because I was beginning to worry she wasn't eating enough fruits and vegetables. Apparently kids her age are supposed to have 2-4 which doesn't seem like a lot. Especially considering he said that a serving is the size of her fist. That is only like 3 grapes!


She still isn't sleeping through the night, she wakes up once a night. She has two teeth on the bottom. She LOVES dogs, if she keeps up her excitement for doggies her daddy is going to be hard pressed to keep her from getting one. She seriously goes crazy at the sight or even sound of a puppy. She has started folding her hands when we pray. When she wants a snack she signs eat then runs to the fridge. She won't watch a tv show for more than 5 minutes.

Friday, November 11, 2011

Oh How Quickly They Grow

You know that annoying saying that everyone tells you when you first have a baby, "I feel like I just brought my own home from the hospital now they're 5, 10, a teenager, in college, etc"

I think I heard that several times a day for two months. Now I find myself thinking all too often, I feel like I just brought her home from the hospital.

Lillian is in the incredible age of learning right now she is picking things up so quickly. Sometimes I put her in a chair and buckle her in while I shower and when I'm done I put lotion on my face. A couple of days in a row after I was done lotioning myself I put some on her legs which tend to be dry. After just two days of this, on the third day she was there during my shower (which wasn't even consecutive to the other two) as soon as I put the lotion on my face she held up her leg.

It is also incredible for me to see how much she understands, even though she can communicate so little. Like any parent, I like to test what she knows so I'll ask her to do something and see if she will do it. I think the most recent thing is helping to put her toys away. We asked her to put her legos in their place and she picked them up and started to put them away. She also used to play with the dishes in the dishwasher while I was loading and unloading, but now she pulls them out and hands them to me to put away. She even takes the tupperware to it's spot, which is her free reign cabinet in the kitchen.

It's hard to believe that a baby that couldn't even look me in the eyes two seconds ago can now understand, follow instructions and learn things so quickly. Even some of the signs we haven't talked about in months (because I slacked off) she is starting to use.

Even though I know you aren't supposed to compare your child to others I was beginning to think she might be a little behind with how many words she knows. It is hard to tell though, because most of her friends are a few months older. We had a play date with a mother of eighteen month old twins who do not communicate at all, no signs no words. It was nice to have that perspective that all children develop at their own pace (and btw mine is a genius)

There are some things I really wish she would pick up faster. Most notably come here, we don't hit, we don't throw our food and please stop fussing. Oh and I will pay you one million dollars if you'll do the dishes

Monday, October 17, 2011

About as saggy as her momma

Lillian brought my bra over to me to play with so I put it on her. She thought it was hilarious and it made me laugh so hard. I kept thinking, ya mine sag about that low too.


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Sunday, October 16, 2011

Texas State Fair 2011

Travis and I decided to take the train down to the state fair a couple of weekends ago. I've come to realize we aren't really fair people. We don't like games, rides and we don't know how to find anything else cool to go to so we end up just taking a lap around and leaving. It was still fun to get out of the house and go do something different for a change. The fried autum pie made the trip worth it.



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Pumpkin Patch 2011

We finally did something as a family! I wanted to share pictures for my family that is not on facebook so sorry for the repeat for those that are.























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